There is a potential risk involved if you cannot manage this transition without experiencing hardship. Therefore, it is crucial to have a conversation with your spouse about this before making any decisions. Remember, marriage is a partnership and both partners need to be in agreement about significant life choices like this. Think of it like caring for a garden - if you want it to thrive, you need to put in the necessary effort to make it happen. There is a distinction between having an argument because you lack the capability to do something and arguing about where you want to live because of differing opinions.We want to improve the relationship without making things so difficult that it fundamentally changes it for the worse. So, if this change leads to another change that makes things worse, we'll have to rethink the situation. Maybe it would be best to visit for a year and see what it's like before making any decisions. That would be expensive, but it would be worth it to avoid making a mistake.