This is very instructive. I believe that Jesus ruined everyone's attempts to guide them in what they thought was the best way to deal with people and situations. What makes the sense of freedom we can all find to mean to us? Express our intentions and talents that contradict human culture and prejudice?
I think it's because we see that acting for another person is futile, even if we have a sense of satisfaction and purpose. I believe it is possible to be accepted by God so that we don’t classify situations, but just enjoy them. God, enjoy others. So the question is, do we really love God enough to satisfy that His love is so deep in any situation that we can't get better by acting. Every time we find ourselves in a certain situation, trying not to be ourselves is a kind of firm self-reflection, experiencing a joy of forgetting ourselves that comes from the power we don't have. have.   

I think people are taught to trust others and expect to be rewarded, so they always look around for what to wear. This is why Jesus tries to get us out of trouble. For humans, because we are like two ships sailing at night.Chasing expectations is more real than trying to meet our reasonable expectations, which is why we are always under the tyranny of unfulfilled expectations. We are good at it. With our strength and my own strength, I have no doubt that people have suffered such severe psychological harm, and this is the only reliable compensation for them. To some extent, we are all like this.