Codependency signifies an intense dependence on something external to God, often leading individuals to assign a value to another person that does not truly reflect their inherent nature. Genuine connection with the Divine is facilitated through the Word and the Spirit, as each individual is fundamentally created to worship and embody the essence of a true being. Therefore, when we express truths that align with reality, it is crucial to avoid conflating different representations. If our understanding of truth equates various concepts with equal significance, it results in a fundamental contradiction. This principle highlights why the biblical depiction of dependence sharpens our value framework to focus solely on the image of God as revealed through Christ. As a result, codependency and authentic spiritual reliance cannot coexist harmoniously within the same relational dynamics. It is essential to understand that codependency is primarily a psychological condition, rather than a direct result of interpersonal relationships. To break free from the grips of codependency, we must first disentangle ourselves from misleading representations of reality. This means our priority should not be on cutting ties with harmful relationships, but rather on dismantling all the idols we may have allowed into our lives. By doing so, we reaffirm our trust in God alone and recognize His ultimate authority over all aspects of our existence. Our aim should not be to replace toxic relationships with healthier alternatives, as this merely continues a cycle of fabricating our own reality based on the standards we impose on both ourselves and others, which is a defining characteristic of codependency. When we approach God seeking Him for who He is, rather than for what He can provide, we begin to realize that we cannot form a consistent understanding of a genuine person outside of His influence. This realization expands our perception of reality. Within our relationship with God, everything takes on a deeper meaning. Frequently, we assess ourselves and others through the prism of our own self-fulfillment, leading to confusion about our understanding of codependency. This confusion stems from our inclination to make poor judgments based on distorted images. In essence, when we do not place our complete trust in God, we strive to envision a world that we can control, only to face the paradox that we cannot truly hide anything from Him.