I believe that our circumstances play a more significant role in our suffering than our sins. Over the course of 30 years, I have deeply contemplated the Psalms and have found compelling reasons for Christians to take the concept of curses seriously. While many theologians dismiss the idea of curses, I disagree with them as I believe that by doing so, they prioritize sin as the primary cause of our troubles. Through my own personal experiences, I have come to understand that the Psalmist's feelings of guilt and shame were often a result of his difficult circumstances, rather than solely his sins. Contrary to popular belief, he did not always find relief through confession after experiencing conviction for his sins.

Having delved deeply into the experiences of the Psalmist, one can discern that his challenges extended beyond mere sins. Therefore, I refute the notion that sin hinders one's connection with God. The Psalmist did not approach God from a standpoint of guilt and sin, but rather utilized strategic arguments to navigate his trials successfully. Those who have faced trials understand the internal turmoil that can arise. Through careful introspection, one may realize that peace does not solely stem from confessing sins. Feelings of guilt, shame, anxiety, and sorrow often stem from unresolved anger, which can corrode both body and spirit. It is during moments of anger that one's sense of control may falter.

There are various factors that can lead to feelings of anger in individuals, often stemming from a sense of loss in areas such as finances, family relationships, or personal health. The desire for acceptance is a fundamental human need, which is typically fulfilled through achieving success, whether in the form of approval from others or a sense of personal fulfillment. However, anger can arise when obstacles prevent us from reaching our goals and experiencing this success. It is striking to observe how individuals may suppress their anger towards others, situations, or even towards a higher power, causing it to manifest negatively in both their physical and emotional well-being. This internal conflict can ultimately detract from the quality of life. I have extensively addressed the issue at hand, which serves as a primary hindrance to the development of Christian maturity. In the following discussion, I will delve deeper into strategies for effectively addressing and overcoming this obstacle.