This perspective is quite extreme, known as 5 point Arminism, and is adhered to by some Calvinists. Personally, I find it concerning. I believe that God is not a cruel figure who would deliberately harm his children. In fact, He goes above and beyond to meet the needs of even the most ungrateful individuals. A healthy child, who is secure in their father's love, may take it for granted, but this sense of security allows them to love others wholeheartedly. It is the neglected children who truly appreciate even the smallest gestures of love. Our Heavenly Father showers us with abundant gifts, especially in our moments of deepest sinfulness. Despite our constant weaknesses and failings, God does not demand more from us, but instead gives freely out of His overflowing love. We could either approach God as if we were orphans, longing for His grace, or we can bask in His unconditional love and security, knowing that He will continue to provide for us, regardless of our presumptions. This divine love surpasses any earthly relationship, even the bond between a parent and child. As a father myself, I strive to anticipate and fulfill my children's needs before they even express them, ensuring that they are enveloped in love and security. It is my hope that they will thrive and flourish in this atmosphere of unconditional love.

Grace can be described as the extraordinary phenomenon of fulfilling our every requirement, even when we are engulfed in the depths of our darkest transgressions.Sometimes we forget an important principle: it's okay to have confidence in our spiritual accomplishments, even if others have not achieved the same level because they didn't put in the effort. If others criticize us for being proud, they are either right or they are being unkind. It's important to remember that our Father loves us for who we are, including our achievements.