I've candidly discussed this in the past. We are what we reasonably believe. The guiding principle is that if someone critically evaluates us and tries to generate a negative image of us that my be true being that we are sinners yet I do not believe we must think like others think of us. And so the cruel people who usually judge or merely make absolute statements about our personal weaknesses befall routinely the political people who are publishing defamatory statements about the ones that we overcame and they expose current ones. Its mortal nature to merely represent the accuser. The essential point is that as long as we are on this exposed earth we are inevitably going naturally suffer the social evils of others. Is it all determined by what kinds of faithful friends we naturally have? I don't believe, therefore, because Christ said of the sinners that they were more free than the self-righteous because they felt incapable to overcome their identified problems.  I genuinely believe in some effective ways that when we put ourselves out to be better than other disappointed people it is because we are neurotic. The Christian life willingly endure not a life were we merely avoid the bad and focus on the good. Its being able to receive Christ everywhere in the spirit of completeness. If we nothing but follow Christ as the ruler of His church then we would think that He was only present among the people that were visibly on His team. If we regard Him as only the Savior of the world then we would be incapable to enjoy all of the times we spend talking about things other than salvation. But if we follow Christ as the governor of the world then we would think of how He rules by His attributes in all corners of the earth. Its best for us to instantly follow Christ as the successful governor of all civilized mankind because we dearly need finding unity in all possible things and all situations. Christ is not merely in the morally excellent activities. He is also present in the extremely perilous parts of the world. Because Christ anger ordinarily goes carefully spreads the most violent and angry societies. Christ anger eagerly consumes all expressed anger. Just as His ardent love consumes all lesser loves. The principal reason that we remain not fundamentally a vulnerable victim is because Christ word addresses the violent as well as the innocent. He has already rendered the most violent powerless to intentionally destroy a Christian. How has He performed this? By simply doing something in the historic past that will not matter on this caused earth? No, He has pronounced judgement on the abusers of this heathen world. As we pray these authoritative pronouncements then as excellent ambassadors of the chief governor we are generating a way of success for the gospel to go out to the most remote parts of the world. God is habitually justified and righteous and if there is no effective remedy for our being merely taken advantage we will be triumphantly vindicated on the terrible day of harsh judgement.