A man says to me. You did not do a good job. It must be your family troubles. I inform him, I was declared from eternity into a family of God. I no longer belong to an isolated family. My earthly family was ordered before the foundation of the world. My past sin no longer defines who I am. But my present identity was sufficiently completed in eternity past as well. I cannot be conventionally defined. I am constantly being renewed from one day to another. Consequently, this is my question. If you believe God waited for you to decide I estimate your inviting people to deliver judgements by your effort. I definitely choose my historic past, present and future was accurately defined in eternity past. I can no longer be defined. You can have that mill stone of free will tied around your exposed neck. Do not blame me for you inviting judgement.