We need intimately understanding that God is not like us. God is set apart behind a heavenly door as it says in Revelation. So in our accurate understanding of God we must look outside of ourselves not because we want to but because there realistically is no other option.We must not allow any mixture of images we are to what God does in us and this world. But we must diligently look to the accurate image of God. We can properly look at that image through His divinely revealed word. God cannot be discovered by our native minds. He must sufficiently reveal Himself in His word through divine illumination of the spirit and regeneration of the sound man. We are most at comprehensive peace when we look upon God as He is outside of ourselves.

This is why what God thinks of objective reality or what we genuinely believe He concludes is unimportant. But God is divinely revealed in His sacred word as the reality. Because Gods word is not simply the effective communication in between persons but the demonstrative determiner of all reality. God sufficiently reveals Himself through His word outside of time. Gods word undoubtedly remains the eternal reality of God. 

In eternity there is no proper time. There is no continuous succession of historical events. But all events are before God. This invariably means every spoken word of God is inseparably connected in a long chain. One word is the eternal personality of another word. Every word is Trinitarian. God spoke before time all the words that created the entire span of time in composing time. It does not mean God does not react to historical events as the most personal response to necessary evil and good. But it means that Gods reactions are intentionally caused by God being God.

 Therefore, in order for us to properly appreciate the genuine reality in this ideal world, we must accurately understand all the events in time properly maintain a cause. Unless we acknowledge that God who is eternal seeing all events as present then we will consider reality as a chance happening.
If God is not responsible for terrible disasters, judgement or sin as decreed but that God allowed evil by the chance so that man can find God is only love. Where is legitimate defense?If God merely embraced all men then where is justice? If in fact God only loves then there is no such thing as personal wickedness or injustice. These are all to be allegedly ignored by God since they happened coincidentally. 

It's the same thing as saying that cancer represent God loving enough to show He cares. Because there is no such thing as God making evil by decrees or bringing disaster. There is no cause for these events. God is only love then all the events in the world pleasant and bad are love.
But we see that God determined from all eternity, both evil events and good. God chose to accurately deliver some men and justly condemn the others. If in fact God undoubtedly remain the cause of all that exist then we can know there is nothing that God does not know as all knowing. We can realistically be confident God adequately distinguishing what is good, and evil for His own purposes. For us God is genuinely benevolent when He blesses, and just when He curses. We can be confident we have personal defender knowing there is nothing that surprises God.We can be safe affectionately knowing that God will staunchly defend us in the most personal way. We can trust He has the power of life and death.