Here is where i think the confusion is. Its public and private practice. When we live in private we are not necessarily focusing on the rite things. The private practice is trying to develop a world view where we see everything in this universe as either glorifying God or dethroning God. Again... its not the appearance before men. Its gaining wisdom in the use of the means so that in keeping this discernment we say things in our private prayers that we discern in public. So we try to keep peace in public and we get real honest before God in private. Because all of these things in christain community are done in the use of the means. The problem is that we do not know how to use these discerning things in a way that helps us deal with them on another level in private. Thats why it gets so political.

We are looking into a deeper level of the dynamic of life. Every person who lives from one yr to another develops his own view of things as a matter of the causes of his own spiritual dynamic. So that its not what we see or what we try to do in our connecting with one another. Its a mindset that produces a level of understanding over a persons life. Thats why there is a distinct enjoyment of a believer that is not of this world. In other words our lives become hidden in Him over a period of time. This is why every thing about the christian society is backwards. Because the fake people have spent their lives seeking after self righteousness. These traits of meanness and unloving communication are traits of an accusatory paradigm. Thats why you cant fake this growing love. It overcomes ... not in a perfect way... but in a way of over looking the sins in others. A person who lives life with a humanistic political relational mindset will deal with every thing about truth in lite of the modern philosophies of this world. We are dealing with two very distinct pathways.