To some degree, this idea is rooted in principle. I view authority structures described in the Bible as models of leadership by example, emphasizing the importance of preaching and teaching that focus on applying biblical principles to those in leadership roles—serving as chief examples—rather than imposing heavy burdens on the congregation through a quest for power that only Christ possesses, which is absolute and unmatched authority. In essence, the passage in Philippians highlights how Christ humbled Himself, and therefore, all leaders and believers alike must humble themselves under His supreme authority. When this humility is practiced, the church begins to function in a manner consistent with biblical principles. The way the church conducts itself, according to Scripture, reflects the extent of its understanding and demonstration of authority. It's important to note that this begins with leadership, emphasizing their responsibility and influence more than just focusing on the responsibilities of the congregation as a whole. One of the most disheartening aspects of modern preaching is that very few sermons genuinely scrutinize the preacher’s own authority or challenge the structure of authority within the church. There seems to be a misconception that only certain individuals—perhaps church leaders or pastors—are the ones Christ is actively addressing or speaking through. However, within the church’s hierarchical structure, Christ’s authority remains the ultimate authority that is not subject to scrutiny. Everyone submits to that divine authority, and this example should be evident not only in leadership but also in preaching and teaching. Our actions and messages should reflect this submission to Christ’s authority, serving as a model for the congregation. Authority, in this context, does not mean holding a position that is never to be questioned when it comes to biblical truth. The more visible and public a leadership role is, the more susceptible that person is to scrutiny. Such individuals must demonstrate humility consistently and be prepared to be replaced if they violate the biblical principles that define their authority. This accountability is vital to maintaining integrity within the church’s leadership. This will be my final exhortation: if we desire marriage to thrive and be vibrant, we must approach this issue with the same seriousness and responsibility I’ve been discussing—much like counseling a husband to genuinely love his wife. We need to be consistent in our portrayal of Christ’s authority, especially in our preaching, by exemplifying humility, service, and submission to Christ’s ultimate authority. Only then can we hope to see these biblical principles take root and flourish within our families, our churches, and our broader communities.