Some individuals seek assistance and undergo transformation. I have raised two children who adhere strictly to orthodox beliefs and values, which they have learned from me. While I do not consider myself a skilled counselor, I enjoy engaging in debates about faith. I draw upon my own counseling experiences and my wife's background in nursing. I appreciate those who challenge my perspectives, such as friends who follow the Twelve Step program. As a middle-aged individual who grew up during a time when societal norms were evolving, I have personal experiences with alcohol but have never been intoxicated. My sons understand my beliefs, and I am proud of my well-adjusted son who exemplifies the values I have instilled in him. I firmly believe that many challenges stem from lifestyle choices rather than inherited traits from parents. Through observing various families, I have seen that individuals facing personal struggles can still raise successful children, particularly when they prioritize teaching and community involvement. By emphasizing family values and adhering to proper doctrine within a supportive community, we can avoid unnecessary drama in life. It is crucial to spend quality time with children and educate them at home, without overcomplicating matters or creating unnecessary friction. Life can be simplified by focusing on family unity and nurturing relationships, rather than getting caught up in external pressures.

If individuals were to prioritize the simple aspects of life, the more complex aspects would become ordinary. However, when people desire their spouse to be flawless, it leads to complications. I, on the other hand, am not what one would consider flawless or without any limitations. I intentionally avoided individuals who sought to change me because my focus was on fulfilling my responsibilities as a parent. The community I belonged to comprised individuals from various religious backgrounds, but we all shared a common goal of raising our children. Now, we reap the benefits of tranquility as our children have grown independent thinkers. As previously mentioned, we tend to complicate matters unnecessarily. By epistemology, I mean to discuss the way we acquire knowledge, not referring to any specific doctrine. In my personal beliefs, I explain how I navigated through different communities and embraced opposing views to establish this lifestyle. It is a testament to my personal wisdom.