It is not the case that all men will repent; however, you maintain that man has the potential to repent. I do not see three groups in the final judgement, only those who repent and those who do not. And this is precisely why Calvinists are accurate in their assessment, while you are merely adding your own wishes, which have no value. As I have explained, the reconciliation of the world refers to all men, everyone. These words are used in the context where it is impossible for it to be rendered everyone literally. As I have shown in the case of John the Baptist, it says that everyone in that region that John was preaching was baptized. Obviously, the Pharisees who came daily to mock and threaten John were not baptized. So the word must be interpreted in context.The verses you are quoting are mostly addressed to a specific church, and the instructions in them are meant for the Christians in that church. However, the New Testament also contains teaching about the world and all mankind in general. For example, in the book of Revelation it says that Christ has already purchased people from every tribe, nation, and language. So when the New Testament talks about the world, it sometimes refers to the gospel spreading beyond the nation of Israel to the Gentiles. These Gentiles are the people that God has chosen to receive his grace.In Revelation, it is clear from the context that the saints and elders are praising God for His salvation. This is because God has chosen a people for Himself and He is bringing glory to Himself by doing so. Consequently, I do not quote verses like a machine gun, but rather I take the time to understand the context in which they were written. By doing this, I am able to more fully appreciate the verses and what they are saying about God's character.