If we value extraordinary elegance, it ceases to be extraordinary elegance. It feels like getting married when I am with you. Your long-term partner will mirror your own features. If they feel like part of us, then we react to them in a meaningful way. This is why free grace is so important – it allows us to have mercy on others and to receive forgiveness.When we put a price on exceptional grace, we are in bondage to our own desires. This is problematic for people who are exposed to it. How does God respond to our wrongdoing with blessings? It's like thinking about things the wrong way - it's a waste of time. Why does God allow us to stumble and fall again and again, only to remind us of His abundant grace?It doesn't make sense to our finite minds why He would help us when we can help ourselves, but something is always intervening on our behalf. After all, we are all responsible and must act in good faith. It is so hard for us to typically perceive all of what we are as a result of abundant grace. We really want to believe that what we have is rightfully ours. This is the standard we use to judge our own level of control. The appreciation of elegance can be difficult to fully develop, but it's a sweet experience worth having. The overflow of it in us is beautifully expressed in an attractive personality. It is our direct reflection that typically goes on inside of us. The presence of grace is like a wondrous vision of God's power and love.When we confront the aggressive personality of personal anxiety and worry, it feels like another person is living inside us, constantly warning us of the disastrous consequences of making a mistake. We are exhibiting worrisome signs of emotional stress, as we are being threatened and burdened with an obligation to someone. We are overcome by the intense personality of fear's abjectness. The negative pressure in our heads begins to build and we withdraw into ourselves. We easily stray from excellent grace. Grace is like a source of eternal life that flows from us.This is the accurate measure we use to identify God. God's presence is His unfailing grace overflowing in us. Where God is present, all reasonable things become good. As grace endures our experience of fellowship with God, we are strengthened. We are so grateful for the friendship of the burliest guy in town. God is immense, and His grace is vast and sufficient for us. Grace is always defined. If God is truly going to give us what we need and what we desire beyond what we have asked for, how can we receive extraordinary grace? Can we measure to what extent we are obedient to God's grace? If we are fully obeying God's love, we truly believe that nothing can keep us from God's eternal love.And so we continually return to our fears, anxieties, and anger. But even though God always responds with abundant grace, it is still never enough. Although we try to present it to others as a product of our active obedience, in reality it is something we received as a result of our unfailing love. What is the meaning of this perplexing event?