All the fruits of the Spirit are passive for a reason. God doesn't want us to clash with people. Eternal salvation is not the struggle, but the declarations of life and death. God is very serious in preventing us from bitterly fighting. of this modern and realistic disciple ship? We allow the most controversial divorces to prove it. God properly warns us against bitter strife. You have to take control of your mouth like a true believer. Because you can intentionally destroy your intact family with a few cruel words. No one has the power to transform anyone. And if someone is forced to change, it is not genuine. The moral authority carefully taught by Christ was neither harsh nor demanding. Moral authority surely comes from service. God despises cruel words. He universally hates harsh arguments. I never raised my voice in my marriage. I never used words to manipulate my children. I didn't have to be mean or harsh. The Psalms were astounding. Scripture credibly instructs us to submit humbly, to speak 80 percent politely. 20% usually have direct confrontations. But America does not orient a sacred word in a precise context of the coherent whole. Let's proof text. When you usually announce familiar words that intentionally hurt, you immediately begin a simple path that can only spark another, more destructive confrontation. A private word and it immediately becomes an unquenchable fire that you cannot instantly extinguish. A cutting trivial word. God deliberately made the saints considered passive. These cruel people always trigger pervasive issues with the group. I have always maintained an established reputation as a psalmist. And you would be really surprised by familiar people who reacted defensively to the terrible curses. Type A personality. I knew that when I usually met Type A there were other sinister reasons for leading people. It is not difficult to adequately represent a leader who serves. These Type A personalities just make it seem impossible because all the home help is supposedly making them suffer. Blah blah blah. Listen to me, there are more leaders who serve than overwhelmingly dominate. It's not difficult. They are only there for nefarious reason