When we're single, we put too much pressure on to repent of our sins and try to see the value of staying clean. The most important lesson we learn in life is when we fail. We take sin seriously, but our Christian life is less about a standard of behavior than about the person of Christ. That goes beyond the inner struggle. That is peace through Christ.  

In this way, we must see that we can possibly struggle through the years with pleasure and pain, but it will not determine how we stay in God's love and faithfulness. Now, some people argue that the work of the Spirit and the moral life of a believer, as experienced in this renewal with a revived spirit, are not related. I tend to find comfort when I am not defined by my sins that particularly plague me. I think that is something we need we find that our ability is too weak for some of these struggles with sin.  

Most people gain some security when they are on the defensive. This rhythm of humiliation is more like a straight line. I don't think you can grow up like that.I know we have to be in a defensive position to face the devil. Not only do we focus on staying away from sin, we are destined to thrive in the light of all of God's counsel. These things have a certain weight. One of the problems we have is that based on our own experience, we believe in the average. If everyone around us practiced a certain orthodox standard of Christian behavior, would that mean that it is good for us?  

Well, the best possible position in this life is to be personally touched by the deep love of God. We are in the days of the religious exterior because we believe that every experience is simply emotional. I can say that one day you might fall And to find the most sacred affection the next day by finding His grace more than enough to take care of that sin? Do you know we say things to each other that seem comfortable and safe? We think we are holy just because we are on the defensive. But all we do is avoid temptation and replace it with self-righteousness.We have to fight our affection without focusing on an area that is holding us back. It may seem like a marathon, but when we are under the power of the mind it looks like running and injuries.