God values enemies by preventing them from destroying themselves. He not only offers the efficient way, but actually works to change them and kindly set limits for them where they can only go so far into sin and no more. He does not allow all fallible beings to fall into such fear, frustration, and hopelessness that they can never find satisfaction in their earthly rewards. God is benevolent throughout.  

But at the same time, God must treat some of the people He loves in a familiar sense. God cannot demonstrate His righteousness on this earth without punishing the wicked and rewarding the righteous. The problem is a difference from God's point of view. And our main point of view. What we think based on our view of events is incorrect. We don't identify how God sees. God is not a brilliant scientist.He doesn't study human behavior in order to understand it. God encounters the most microscopic creatures on earth in a relationship. He cares for their needs, and they enjoy his purpose and peace: tremendous obstacle and specific purpose faithfully fulfilled; extraordinary beauty and moral ugliness, all in one act. It was the cross. Then everything in Christ could be yes and amen. There are no more case studies. .  

God precisely determined the humble beginning of the end; he has found everyone guilty and deserves a quick punishment; no man has the right to question God's purposes; all responsible people are bare and silent before God. Without God's intervention there is no hope. Every day, every moment, we agree to groan. God is not silent. He will listen carefully.He will generously offer an effective way. The shining sun will come out. What is impossible for us is possible for God. Trust me, I am researching past experiences.