As you know, I'm exploring another side of our modern culture of human-centered flattery. The reason I lack this is most people think divine forgiveness is universal and by including all kinds of specific conditions, forgiveness ultimately becomes something to offer to be forgiveness. I don't really understand how people can be so defensive they forgive anyone and still turn around and be defensive after claiming they have forgiven that person. Difficult to understand And therefore we understand that God as the Father adequately communicates us his maternal love in a way that reasonably assures us that he enthusiastically embraced us personally. 

Divine forgiveness is not primarily about merely receiving something from one another. Human forgiveness properly means accepting the spirit of flattery. Therefore, if genuine forgiveness is human-centered, it will be a reflection of how the culture of that society function under human authority. The Pharisees practiced forgiveness, but retained all sorts of provisions on these matters of trust. The closer you got to the top of the chain of command, to scarcely please or to merely move up the political structure of corrupt authority, the more important it was to forgive.This is not genuine forgiveness, and this is sincere flattery. Divine forgiveness properly focuses on God and his mutual sharing of love. Forgiveness is acquiring when we see we cannot deserve it. We get more familiar and more intent to flattery the more we focus on the man.