Wednesday, March 18, 2020

Navigating the Storm: The 2008 Economic Crash and the End of an Era in Florida
The years leading up to 2008 had been rich with purpose. Sandy poured her heart into South Lake Home Educators, turning our sunlit Clermont days into a living classroom of laughter, lesson plans, and tight-knit community bonds. When our son graduated, she stepped down and carried that same servant heart into the New Beginnings office in Clermont, working under Steve Smith. There she helped hurting families find hope while the ministry’s work quietly shaped our own.Then the 2008 crash slammed into our lives like a sudden storm. Jobs disappeared overnight. I took a job at Target, stocking shelves under harsh fluorescent lights, and later spent long days fixing up repossessed houses across Orlando—hammering, painting, and patching wounds in walls that mirrored the wounds in families. The air inside those empty homes carried the faint smell of abandonment, and every drive between properties reminded me how quickly security could vanish.We were granted six bittersweet months to stay in our own repossessed house. Mornings carried the weight of knowing the clock was ticking. As the final weeks closed in, I felt a deep pull rising inside me. I started telling Sandy I wanted to move to Greenville, South Carolina, where my family had already put down roots. My parents had left the familiar warmth of Lake Wales for the rolling hills up north, and now in my fifties I craved their nearness—the kind of support that only blood and shared history can give.
A Hard Conversation and the Peace That Followed
Sandy and I didn’t agree at first. The thought of leaving Florida’s golden light, our church family, and everything familiar felt like tearing up deep roots. Disagreements hung in the air between us like heavy summer humidity. Yet God began to settle my spirit in surprising ways.I had already been flying up to South Carolina to work construction with my younger brother. Each flight carried a quiet thrill mixed with uncertainty—the roar of engines, the press of the seatbelt, the view of clouds giving way to green Carolina hills. On job sites, the rhythm of hammers and sawdust in the air brought a strange peace. In those moments I felt God’s presence like a steady hand on my shoulder, calming the storm inside. He had moved me into new chapters before, often through pressure and uncertainty, and this felt like another sacred page turning. I reminded myself that our faithful God delights in writing fresh stories right when the old ones seem to end.Eventually Sandy’s heart softened. We both sensed the Lord’s gentle confirmation. Leaving Orlando in the middle of the worst economic crash in decades was daunting—good jobs were scarce and the future looked shrouded in fog—but we stepped forward trusting the same God who had carried us this far.
A Humble New Beginning in Greenville: Family, Carpentry, and Quiet Provision
We left New Beginnings behind in Florida and drove north into a new season. God opened doors with quiet precision. My older brother, who owned a feed store tucked along a country road, offered Sandy the manager position. She dove in with both hands—loading bags of feed that smelled of grain and earth, helping customers choose bright flowering plants for their gardens, and guiding them to the right gravel for driveways and pathways. The work kept her moving, her organizational gifts shining as she balanced registers, inventory, and the steady stream of local farmers and homeowners.I went to work with my younger brother, a self-employed carpenter who had built a loyal circle of customers through honest sweat and dependable craftsmanship. We tackled everything from fixing sagging porches to framing new additions. The satisfying thud of nails driven home, the sharp scent of fresh-cut pine, and the ache in my shoulders at the end of the day reminded me I was still strong enough to build something meaningful.We settled into a charming old wooden house built in the early 1900s. Its interior walls still wore the original narrow wooden slats, giving every room a warm, nostalgic glow like stepping back in time. The metal roof sang softly during summer rains and stood strong against winter winds. My brother asked only a small amount of rent—a quiet kindness that felt like grace with a roof over our heads.In those months I discovered what a treasure my mother had become. She turned into my most trusted friend and confidante, her voice on the phone or across the kitchen table offering wisdom, prayer, and the kind of steady encouragement that only a mother’s heart can give. I hadn’t fully appreciated how much I would need her until God placed her close by.Our handicapped son stayed with us, filling the old house with his gentle presence and quiet joy. I loved the simple rhythm we found: working with my hands alongside my younger brother, watching Sandy thrive at the feed store, and keeping our little family close under one roof. The house might have been humble, but it became a sanctuary of rest, laughter, and renewed dependence on the Lord.
Looking Back with Gratitude
The 2008 crash stripped away many of the things we once leaned on—steady income, a familiar home, and the illusion of control. Yet in the loss, God uncovered something deeper: the unbreakable strength of family ties, the dignity of honest labor, and the quiet assurance that His presence is far more reliable than any earthly foundation.Those early years in Greenville taught me again that the Lord often writes our best chapters in the middle of pressure and change. He hadn’t just moved us north—He had drawn us closer to trust, to family, and to the truth that He faithfully watches over His own.

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